We have spent so much of this year by ourselves, whilst dating apps have seen high numbers of downloads and accounts created there has also been more openness to female sexual satisfaction. We have put together 5 tips for helping you to orgasm tonight and we are sure they are going to give your solo time a boost!
Exploring our own bodies in an unhibited way is such a move forward and something we don’t actually need a partner for. That’s not to say that it always has to be alone but it’s great to know your own body – and then makes couple time more fun too. It is thought that we actually have better orgasms when we are on our own, which is convenient if you are isolating or are single.
Here are 5 tips for helping you to orgasm tonight!
Full body explore
It can be easy to just go straight for the groin but a lot of our sex experiences come from TV and of course movies so don’t assume it will happen as quickly as that. Go full body, take your time and you’ll enjoy the experience even more. It’s also a good time to think about different positions, you may have always been on your back but maybe on all fours is better. You’ll be surprised by what positions set your body off and never forget about standing up in the shower too. You can also use that shower head!
Use lube
Yes, not just for sex. Using toys should be fun and you’ll want glide rather than get any irritation. So once you’ve picked your best sex toys you need to think about what lube you want to use. You’ll also find that some vibrators and their speed can make it feel like a drill is on you as your sensitivity increases. If this happens just lower the speed a bit or go manual for a bit, you’ll be so close to orgasm at this point and it will make your finish even more spectacular.
Fantasise
Let your mind wander! Don”t be nervous to ignore how fantasising can really turn you on. Still thinking about that hot guy you saw on the train. Think about where you’d go with him and what you want him to do to you. Music might help to get you in the mood and don’t ignore sexy films that can help get you in the mood too. Think about different places and scenarios and you’ll be aroused in no time.
Work your pelvic floor
Pelvic floor squeezes are mostly talked about for bladder control and the ‘squeeze and release like you are stopping a wee’ (so sorry!) but think about this muscle. It’s got your clitoris right between those muscles so yes a squeeze just when you are close to orgasm, it can really help you to go right over. It’s just a great all-round tip and easy to practice at any time.
Take your time
You may not really want to spend a lot of time but honestly the pay-off is huge! Don’t try to smash for a personal best in the quickest time, think about the long term goal here. Try using your vibrator on a lower speed, take a sensual bath, really spend some time getting aroused. You’ll find that the longer time you set that the end result is much more powerful. That’s why I recommend making more of an evening out of it, you’ll really notice the difference.
These tips will help you to have stronger orgasms and you will start getting to know yourself better more each time too! Thanks for reading “5 tips for helping you to orgasm tonight!”
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