A Freedom of Information request has revealed at least 36 NHS emergencies led to sex toys having to be medically removed, highlighting the risks of adventurous sexual activity, even when using purpose-designed products.
Though sex toys are generally safe when used correctly, experts stress that accidents can still happen, and have urged people to approach play with care, proper preparation, and the right equipment.
Sexual health educators from Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle, warned it’s important to strike the right balance between curiosity and caution.
“Pleasure should never come at the cost of pain or panic,” Isabelle said. “With a little preparation and the right tools, intimacy can be both fulfilling and entirely safe.”
Tom added, “Be safe. Always use proper tools made for the activity.”
When Play Turns Risky
While the 36 emergencies involved sex toys, medical staff across the UK have also dealt with a wide range of non-specialist items requiring removal, often inserted without safety features or consideration for retrieval.
Common examples reported over the years include:
- Toilet brushes
- Deodorant bottles
- Pens
- Snooker balls
- Marbles
- Toothbrushes
- Remote controls
- Food items: including large carrots
“While humour often surrounds these mishaps, the health risks are serious. Misuse can lead to tears, infections, or in rare cases, surgery,” said Isabelle.
Talking Kinky recommend the following key precautions:
- Use Flared Base Toys
“Especially for anal. If it doesn’t have a base, it might get stuck.”
- Don’t Use Household Items
“Just because it fits doesn’t mean it’s safe. Glass, sharp edges, food items, it’s not worth it unless it’s made for play.”
- Start Small
“Stretching should be gradual. Rushing increases the risk of injury.”
- Sterilize Everything
“Infections are not a good time. Use toy-safe cleaners or boil if the material allows.”
- Communicate
“With yourself or your partner. Use a mirror, ask how it feels, and check in often.”
“Doctors have seen it all,” Tom noted. “They’re more likely to be concerned about delays than your inserted rubber duck.”
When should you ask for help?
If you feel:
- Sharp pain
- Bleeding
- Loss of sensation
- A toy won’t come out after 10–15 minutes of calm effort
